RED BANK, N.J. (AP) — In three decades as one of the world’s biggest rock stars, Jon Bon Jovi has eaten in some of the world’s best restaurants, savoring the best food the planet has to offer.
Yet there’s no place he’d rather have dinner than The Soul Kitchen, a “pay-what-you-can” restaurant he and his wife Dorothea established in a former auto body shop near the Red Bank train station in central New Jersey.
The restaurant provides gourmet-quality meals to the hungry while enabling them to volunteer on community projects in return without the stigma of visiting a soup kitchen. Paying customers are encouraged to leave whatever they want in the envelopes on each table, where the menus never list a price.
The restaurant is the latest undertaking by the New Jersey rocker’s Jon Bon Jovi Soul Foundation, which has built 260 homes for low-income residents in recent years.
“With the economic downturn, one of the things I noticed was that disposable income was one of the first things that went,” Bon Jovi told The Associated Press in an interview Wednesday before the restaurant’s grand opening ceremony. “Dining out, the family going out to a restaurant, mom not having to cook, dad not having to clean up — a lot of memories were made around restaurant tables.
“When I learned that one in six people in this country goes to bed hungry, I thought this was the next phase of the Foundation’s work,” he said.
It started several years ago when Dorothea Bongiovi (she uses the legal spelling of her husband’s name) and Jon started helping out at a food pantry at nearby St. Anthony’s Roman Catholic Church. They later moved their focus to the Lunch Break program, which feeds 80 to 120 people a day, dubbing it “The Soul Kitchen.”
They brought that name with them to a former auto body shop down the street from the Count Basie Theater, where Jon and his self-titled band have played many fundraising shows for local charities.
It took a year and $250,000, but the restaurant now rivals any of its competitors in trendy Red Bank, with entrees like cornmeal crusted catfish with red beans and rice, grilled chicken breast with homemade basil mayo and rice pilaf, and grilled salmon with soul seasonings, sweet potato mash and sauteed greens, many of which were grown in the herb and vegetable garden right outside the restaurant’s doors.
Bon Jovi, who has a home in next-door Middletown, is adamant about one thing.
“This is not a soup kitchen,” he emphasizes. “You can come here with the dignity of linens and silver, and you’re served a healthy, nutritious meal. This is not burgers and fries.
“There’s no prices on our menu, so if you want to come and you want to make a difference, leave a $20 in the envelope on the table. If you can’t afford to eat, you can bus tables, you can wait tables, you can work in the kitchen as a dishwasher or sous chef,” he said. “If you say to me, ‘I’m not a people person,’ I say, ‘That’s not a problem. We’ll take you back to Lunch Break to volunteer with those people. If you don’t want to volunteer with that, we’ll take you to the FoodBank.”
After volunteering at one of those places, a person will be given a certificate good for a meal at The Soul Kitchen.
“If you come in and say, ‘I’m hungry,’ we’ll feed you,” Bon Jovi said. “But we’re going to need you to do something. It’s very important to what we’re trying to achieve.”
That includes making people feel part of a larger community that cares about them, while still expecting them to contribute to society at large.
“This is not an entitlement thing,” Bon Jovi said. “This is about empowering people because you have to earn that gift certificate.”
He and others at the restaurant want those who can afford to dine out to patronize the restaurant as well and pay what they consider market prices, or even a bit more than that, to help sustain The Soul Kitchen as a true community resource.
Bon Jovi said he is currently writing songs for his band’s next album, due out in 2013, along with another typically massive Bon Jovi tour. He said many of the songs are inspired by the current economic downturn and the struggles of everyday people to make ends meet without losing hope.
In the meantime, he and his wife plan to stay active in the restaurant, where he estimates he has worked at least once a week in recent months. The Soul Kitchen is open for dinner Thursday through Saturday, and offers Sunday brunch.
How important is rolling up his sleeves and working in the restaurant to him?
“Last Friday, I was at the White House, serving on the Council for Community Solutions, got on a train, changed in the bathroom and got here in time to wash dishes Friday night,” he said. “I’m the dishwasher, for real. I can’t cook a lick.”
I always like seeing celebrities do something in the US. I always give a side-eye when I see them doing things for other countries when right here in the US we have so many in need of a helping hand.
Big-ups to Jon Bon Jovi (he still could get it)








I love when celebrities do things in our country. I love it even more when they do things on their home turf as he is a Jersey Boy through and through. I shall be a patron of this establishment and see if I can get other friends of mine to join me.
And you right, Bef. He can get it.
and after we eat there, its GC!
but yo, Im originally from Sayreville, jon's hometown. they love that man to death there. shoot, but in 86, if you didnt have the slippery when wet album, the whole town dished out Vader-level side-eye
I'm telling you…you keep trying to threaten me with a good time!!!
Yeah, this really is an awesome thing they are doing and I was def thinking I would go there if ever in the area…..until they said Tyrone Biggums might be my server….
*fights Bully… even if he's right!*
I was hungry until you said that.
I love JBJ… he's done real good for the area – Philly and Jersey.
*slow claps and finger snaps*
Jon has always stuck close to his roots in NJ and never forgotten where he is from.
And with the popularity of the Occupy movement, especially in the larger cities where they feed
not only hundreds of protestors but also homeless every day, this is a concept that I could see spreading around the country.
LOVE LOVE LOVE!!!
I don't really care whether the celebrity does his charity at home or not, I don't think that's terribly relevant. Either way, this is a rather fantastic-sounding little project. Full, full respect to him.
I'm happy when celebrities or common people do things for folks around the globe, helping people in need as they can.
But I pretty much spit on those people whom you see off in sierra leone building schools n shyt, when their own base of operation/studio is but a mile away from schools where kids don't have up to date books or after school programs, nutritious food, etc on the south side of the chi…….i'm not saying any names…. but fugg them.
how about you take care of home first.
Americans spend so much time doing things in everyone else's backyard, while our own residence could use some sprucing up.
exactly!
I don't give a farthings damn where you give to be honest but when you have needy children/families right outside your window but you want to go to the country du jour instead I have a problem…because I always feel like it's not a genuine thing you are doing…you are doing it for more for your ego than for the people you claim to be helping…
but that's just me!
"But I pretty much spit on those people whom you see off in sierra leone building schools n shyt, when their own base of operation/studio is but a mile away from schools where kids don't have up to date books or after school programs, nutritious food, etc on the south side of the chi"
You're right. I get the concept of it in terms of them having NEVER had anything…but when you have Detroit closing 50% of their high schools and cramming kids into the other 50%…SOMETHING should make you want to look in your own backyard. ESPECIALLY if you come from an impoverished zone. But, maybe that's just me.
:: shrugs :: I guess we Americans just have a more self centered way of charity. I'm ok with that.
You don't impress me building water systems in haiti, while im here in America working on our problems and could use your help..here.
That's because there's no kudos to be had from helping your own…a damn shame. I don't poo-poo charity regardless of the location, but like you, I'm not patting anyone on the back for some shyt we as humans should be doing for our fellow man just because it was done in some third-world country.
If you're doing it for the recognition, then you're doing it for all the wrong reasons…but we figure that out when you show up as the cameras approach, but conveniently disappear afterwards…
My sentiment exactly. Charity is charity regardless of where it is, but it's a different kind of charity if you're looking for accolades.
I do wish that more of our own is taken care of, especially with all that's going on right now.
I love this idea, agree with Fubsy about not necessarily caring where folks choose to give, and admit to looking back up to see who wrote this when I read "he still could get it.
Glad it was Beth!
It was probably Slaus, really.
No! :: rolling :: If i'm going to give away my mancard, trust it aint gonna be for Jon Bon Jovi.
ugh azz ugh.
So what you're saying is that there IS someone(s) you will give it away for, then? Alrighty then…*preps green couch*
I know right! I'm curious to hear this *sits across from green couch*
Pssssh. Yall already know. Lord vader could have it.
-_-…man ima chalk that up to james earl jones. *kicks over chair I was in mumbling* I know this ashy genus aint say someone fictional. That the last time I bring his ass some free lube.
*sigh*
was sitting
genus=negus
damn cell phone
I especially love this:
“If you come in and say, ‘I’m hungry,’ we’ll feed you,” Bon Jovi said. “But we’re going to need you to do something. It’s very important to what we’re trying to achieve.”
This right here. Not only will it not feel like taking charity this way–especially to those recently down on their luck–but it's a lovely cycle of giving back. Helping others help themselves.
Do you wanna go? You can drive to my house and then I'll drive us down there.
I don't drive, but I can get the bus to Journal Square! You're in JC, right?
I'm in New Brunswick. If you can get to Newark Penn, there's a train that brings you here.
I like this idea – I'd like to go too!
I can does that! Are they open Sundays? My back won't let me ride the train till then….
No…it's only open Thursdays, Fridays and Saturdays from 5-7. I has the sads
Damnit! Want to try for next Friday?
*wishes I was in jersey* we give what we can to harvest house and to those we see on the street. It's a really good feeling when you help people, but I really like this concept of paying it forward at the same time.
*thumbs up*
I FLOVE JON BON JOVI. Very down to earth guy and I love the community work that he does.
And I HAVE to agree with Slaus on this one too……"Americans spend so much time doing things in everyone else's backyard, while our own residence could use some sprucing up."….
IJS…It is AWESOME to give to other countries in need. BUT it is even AWESOMER to take care of your own family FIRST. Giving so much elsewhere when there is REAL AND PRESSING need HERE, is a lot like a Police Officer who serves and protects the public, but beats his wife and kids at home.
But that's just me.
i approve of this jbj…
The boys and girl's club is a charity I'm really into. and children's international. I donate and give time to both.
would be nice if we could organise an OHN charity drive. get everyone involved in something in their town each month.
come back to the group and talk about what we learned….
I LOVE that idea.
lets brain storm on this next weekend
this is a GREAT idea I totally support it!!!!
Me too
I am an active Rebekah (El Paso Lodge #741), a presenter in the Chivary for Children program, and a member of the C.O.R.D (Chivalric Order of the Rubber Duck… look it up on FB.)
I would love to participate in this drive!
My Rebekah lodge is once again gearing up for Toys for Tots, and also collecting gently used warm clothing/scarves, hats, mittens and gloves/ soda can tabs to donate to a couple of charities.
I love this whole idea.
There's a coffee shop here in Orlando that lets you pay what you like / can. It's called Credo.
I don't wanna make anyone's stars and bars tremble, lest they feel slightly less American, but this is soooo socialist.
And I loves it.
When I've talked about my political veiws I get told that I am a socialist….. and I guess I am if that means taking care of the folks thats willing to help themselves.
That reminds me, with Turkey day around the bend, I need to find a kitchen to volunteer my skills
love this I hope people dont abuse it so it can stay around for many years to come and who knows maybe a franchise
THIS.
If I was there, I'd eat, then volunteer my imposing size and poor anger management to act as a bouncer, with a specific eye towards niggardry, coontasticness, and porch-monkification of ALL sorts.
damn right imma bouncer too we could team up n choke rich people who dont "pay what they can"
I like the respect.
JBJ is serving for-real FOOD, not just enough corn meal to keep you alive.
I like that he's willing to feed anyone and give them something to help their own self-image. A person can go there, get a real meal, and then turn around and do something positive for it.
This is WINNING.
This makes my heart smile!
mine too!!!!!
Kudos to hottie Jon Bon Jovi, for helping folks that are living on a prayer