“It Kills Me” By Melanie Fiona
If you don’t want to watch the video – it’s basically a chickenhead-mistress anthem with good musical intentions.
Now let’s review why I am referring to that stupid ass song:
awww. what a pretty billboard for that couple. what… they’re not engaged? what…the man is married to someone else?
An Oracle executive has been pledging himself to his “soulmate” on romantic billboards across the country. But it’s not clear the gentleman approves; after all, the lady he’s cuddling up to on the signs is not his wife.
The mysterious billboards advertise an online photo album which includes eight years worth of romantic pictures, emails, karoake performances, notes, tickets (including to Barack Obama’s Inauguration) which seem to document a long-time affair between Charles Philips and YaVaughnie Wilkins. Our latest theory is that Wilkins has rented the billboards to expose the eight-year relationship she’s had with a married man.
ahhhh. Once again – puzzy control (c)Prince reigns.
Not only ALLEGEDLY is this biatch buying expensive billboards AROUND THE COUNTRY, she is posting online photo albums (which doesn’t work, probably cause of too much traffic)?of their frolics and his notes to her, all the while in REAL LIFE still? married to his wife Karen:
So was Phillips juggling two women, with one or both kept in the dark? Did Wilkins get tired of waiting for Charles to leave his wife? Were the spouses separated but not yet public with the end of their marriage? Maybe Phillips is indeed divorced, and trying to smooth over an unrelated fight with Wilkins? The couple has had their share of blowups in the past, as seen in the letters from the website below, with Phillips urging Wilkins to be “patient.” (Hmm.)
We’ve tried to get answers, emailing the address listed on the “Charles & YaVaughnie” website Tuesday and calling and emailing various people at Oracle yesterday trying to reach Phillips. Thus far we’ve heard nothing.
I see. Seems to me another case of an arrogant man with power, thinking that his mistress(s?) will take his double talk for what it is.. just a fling… but wait he thinks he is in love with her (or he thinks he can keep her poontang around if he convinces her of such).. but wait not so much he wants to stay with his wife….
Messy.
Matching 'fits and worldwide trips? really?
?
Dude – ya’ll got time for all this messyness? really? over tang?
Your co-workers looking at you crazy cause you have played such a serious game with a woman that she got your ass on FULL BLAST. And that’s okay? that’s just life for ya’ll? As I asked with Tiger Woods.. is it really worth all this?
Speak on it….
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Wow, I am trying to laugh but seriously. I thought wisdom came with age. I just hope she got some closure and the next post wont be about how she “snapped”. I wish she could get a refund for her money and donate to a better cause then the crazy b*tch fund. She could have even used it for the counseling she seriously needs.
DAYUM!! I can feel the heat from here. He’ll be showering the egg off for years.
But suspect ladybits is still a homewrecker. After eight years she HAD to have known.
People won’t ever learn, will they?
Wow.
Stop labeling the mistress in this shit the “homewrecker”! THAT muthafugga WRECKED HIS HOME too! Douchebag on TILT he is!!
Every time I look at the picture I can’t stop laughing, because I can just image his face when he seen this picture. You know he said “This b*tch is crazy”.
This is not Full Blast. This is MEGA BLAST.
In all honesty, what does she stand to gain from this. No man wants to be with her because she fell for the okedoke and then put it all out there for the world to see…… and no woman wants to be with him because he cheated.
Loose – loose situation.
@Chocl8t – Oh, he’s just as guilty, darlin…don’t get me wrong!! But there will be plenty of women out there who are going to feel pity for her, which is stupid because she’s as much to blame as he is!
He ain’t shyt…
Sidebar: I thought the chickenhead mistress anthem was “As We Lay” by Kelly Price. Thats still my jam though….
Damn.
See this is what happens when you start lying to a woman. Tell the damn truth!
I let all my ho’s know that there is and will be only ONE Mrs. Dirty Red. I let them know that there will be no texting, no calls after 8 pm, no pictures or video. (unless of course it is of their titties and I ain’t no where in the picture.) There will be no expensive dates. And I let them know that I can’t spend nothing but a hour with them a week.
See n---as like this beige fool all up in the billboard has f--ked the game up for the rest of us hard working men. LOL.
I don’t know why THIS shit has set me off today….8 years? EIGHT COTDAYUM YEARS?!!! Bitch your ass is dumber than a bag of rocks for screwing around with this married man. What the hell was he feeding you besides that d*ck? Stupid ass broad!
And lets not talk about HIS shitty ass. Do you have children? Are they old enough to be on the internet? Have they seen daddy booed up with his skanky mistress? Does he even give a dayum?
A collossial fail from every angle!
this is pretty epic. she really did him wrong by putting that sh** all over the country. even though i feel bad for him, her, and his family i really cant help but imagine this dude and tiger woods in a “girls gone wild” type commercial with steel drum music and the background overlayed on photos of debauchery. . . sigh
BWahahahahaha asshole deserves the hearty servings of Bitchmadeness comments and laughter coming his way… I hope the wife and Yaniquawhateverhernameis BOTH make loot out of the upcoming divorce settlement/books
Don’t get me wrong bitch is a TROLLOP of the highest order, and surely karma is coming her way.. but she wasnt the married man
Nahhhh B this is COSMIC BLAST!!!!! The Martians are like DAYUM!!!
Looks like he may start suffering from Hotgrititis. It’s a condition you get when you play with a sister that you are married to. You start feeling a warm sensation and then within seconds it begins to burn deeply into your skin. Usually leaving internal and external scars and you will start singing gospel music for the cure….
iDied @ Lo-Kei
ya big ol’ dummy.
they all deserve each other…
mistress is crazy and stupid
man is stupid and dumb
wifey is dumb… but can redeem herself by taking everything and announcing it on a billboard…
LMAO
Married men that cheat at the stupidest men in the universe. And women that mess with married men are the weakest women in the universe.
When a married man gets another woman to fool with him all the while he’s still with his wife…their ego inflates 1000000000000 times.
Thus causing them to become the stupidest people on earth.
Married men always tell the same lies …but they also tell the same truths…too much of the same truths. More often than not the mistress knows ALL the married man’s business. It’s like all common sense goes out the window. Married men tell the mistress about every fart that’s let. And the weak minded simpleton hangs on every single lie but she also doesn’t forget the truths.
And this is the result…
She did this grand style. I’m surprised she didn’t just call the wife. I’m sure she has all the contact information cause stupid married man probably told her.
Wow. WWWWWWWWOOOOOOOOOWWWWWWWW.
*destroyed* at the photoshoot in Austrailia.
Welp, whattayougonnado
This is more epic than ol boy Facebook snitching on his lil sister for all the d--ks she was sucking
This shyt here is Flawless Victory….
That’s why when im powerful, im having c4 implanted in my hoe’s tiddies. Soon as they get to talking slick,,BOOOOOM.
Or when they go to the dentist, I’ll have the DR implat lil cyanide tablets in a mufuggaz wisdom teefis.
” Ima tell Yo wife, Bef n amber !”
:: hits button ::
:: heffa collapses ::
WITH a fatality @ Slaus
*lays down* at Flawless Victory
@Amz… I’m just saying… lol
@ Slaus… nah son… let’s do some Napalm. See you mix that shyt with some gasoline and add a little Massengill Berry. See she puts it in and then……
::hangs head..gave to much info….walk out room::
wait.
Massengill comes in Berry?
Who authorized that?
These fools talking bout blowin up a woman’s cooch?!!
YIKES!!!
LOL @ lo-kei. Hellll yeah.
Just saying.. If someone wants to overreact, show them what an overreaction is reaaalllly about. That’s my stance.
@Amz…
Yep… experimental… I don’t think it will work though… may leave you ladies feeling a little “yeasty”
::ducks head and runs out door.:::
*watches Lo-Kei run, waits for the tripwire and explosion from Sherlock Holmes*
She must have took heed from As Alexyss K. Taylor. As she puts it “she’s a common bitch” and he is a “two faced d--k”
Please get into her…
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MdKfM-bLVxA
“Chocl8t January 21, 2010 at 11:31 am
I don?t know why THIS shit has set me off today?.8 years? EIGHT COTDAYUM YEARS?!!! Bitch your ass is dumber than a bag of rocks for screwing around with this married man. What the hell was he feeding you besides that d*ck? Stupid ass broad!
And lets not talk about HIS shitty ass. Do you have children? Are they old enough to be on the internet? Have they seen daddy booed up with his skanky mistress? Does he even give a dayum?
A collossial fail from every angle!”
I approve this message….
I’ll be damn if I would waste 8 yrs and I am not the wife/long-term SO… Hells nawl. That’s hella stupid and she is pissed to a degree that it is not just about him, but herself for buying into his crap.
Sorry, but I would have been getting my own man, not waiting 8 yrs on someone else’s HUSBAND! (They still do this in the new century– really?)
And he has been served from ALL angles. Like Tiger, this is DEF an instance where not keeping it in the pants cost you more pain than your ego was worth.
Dummies.
When I was in HS I saw a billboard in Times Square of a woman calling out her husband for cheating. It was awesome. I wish I would’ve taken a picture. I think it was found to be a hoax afterwards, but still, I was impressed.
http://threeminds.organic.com/images/threeminds_legacy/uncategorized/emily_billboard_1.jpg
Du-du-du-duh, du-du-du-duh-DAMN!! (heard that on the radio last night, couldn’t resist it)
HE’s an azzhole. You can’t keep feeding hoes promises and not following up. ‘Specially when you have deep pockets… hoes will go deep to get back at your stupid azz.
She’s an azz for being a hoe. Eight years?? Oh, she knew. Pull yourself up, get some pride and chunk the duece to that mofo and regain your dignity.
And I CHOKED.ON.MY.SALAD at the Massengil Berry!! *in tears*
DEAD at Cosmic Blast.
It’s not true that what your wife don’t know won’t hurt her; the proper phrase is what your wife don’t know won’t hurt YOU.
But more than that; this man was well regarded in the business community; poised to take over Oracle when and if Larry Ellison ever retired; a black man as CEO of one of the most successful companies in the world; and all his attaboys get shot down with an eight year OH SHYT! Now all his decisions become suspect; Ellison gets to put his retirement on hold (his egotistical azz is not going to leave his legacy in the hands of a f--kup); his wife will get 90%. People will question his ability to blink truthfully. For a fail that will go down in history, she will get more than the usual 50%. And for what?
Ok…the facts have been properly stated. She’s a stupid ho…he’s a lying cheating bastard. But for real? A 60K billboard? I should go to herhouse right now and whupp her ass for waiting 60K on more than one billboard.
alexyss taylor… Aint that the crazy lady that talks about Penis Power!?
EPIC FAIL on both sides! im sure this makes everyone that likes to creep, think twice bout doin it… or at least it should. if i ever get the urge to cheet on a unsuspecting mofo, imma think about this crazy bych, cause crazyness goes both ways, right fellas??? haha
@mslovebug – I’m willing to guess that somehow she spent HIS 60K for those billboards. Which makes this even funnier to me. Eight years is a long time to be working with a mistress and and a wife. And I’m sure he was with some other extra tail as well. FUBAR on everyone’s part.
Woooowww! She took out billboards and everything. That’s what the fool gets for playing with someone’s emotions. She is no better for voluntarily being the extra chic to another woman’s husband.
@ beff
…you know it would have been easier to have just said one trillion, instead of typing all of those “0’s”.
Just an fyi
The man’s an arrogant dirty-ass dog for cheating on his wife to begin with, but I have to put the Stupid cap on the woman. 8 years of being a man’s side-hoe? 8 years, woman? Are your goals in life THAT shallow? She could have gotten a Masters Degree, a Bachelor’s or two, started a business, gotten married to an unattached man AND popped out 1 baby in that time! Jeez, woman, get some damn standards!
The level of this man’s arrogance though is astounding. Im not sure he even has regular balls dangling between his legs. THIS bytch has ultra mega jupiter size nuts!
You dont keep a hoe for no 8 damn years. Bytch that’s a relationship, that’s not a trist.
A good hoe should have a shelf life of no more then 8 months.. 4 weeks.. 5 fuggs even. You don’t keep a woman on the side for no 8 damn years, that’s just disrespectful to a hoe. Shiiit man, a hoe has feelings!
She might have been the hoe in this scenario, but he is the bitch.
True Slaus. Plus, if he had gone to an actual professional hoe, he wouldn’t be on Front Street right now. A Pro-Hoe is only in it for the money and the perks, and it’s in the interest of her career to keep her damn mouth shut.
Damn it, cheat smart if you’re going to cheat at all! >_<
I cast 5000 Blame hp on both parties. Equally. Just because he’s married doesn’t mean its all his fault. You don’t know who was the aggressor here. 8 Years? That’s some shit. No self esteem. Especially after she put her face out there too in a disrespectful way. She’s hurting his WIFE more than HIM because his wife’s family is gonna be reacting alot the same as ya’ll are. If they’ve ever been in the same place together, his wife is going to feel retarded.
Sidenote. She would have no right after 8 years to call the wife to sell him out. After the 6th month, she’s FULLY invested as deep as he is.
Is this a case of side bitches fighting for their so called rights or an arrogant ass mf finally got caught???
I mean its like dumb mf going on judge judy for justice for being dumb. Hoes have come up, they getting educated and stashing money.
Beware men with roaming d--ks, the side bitch of today is nothing like the side bitch of ten years ago. These new broads got bitches like these for role models.
What happened to just having side cootchie? Where in the playa handbook does it say “take thee bitch on exotic trips to ensure her loyalty”
I could have swore I read on page 10, section 8 para 3 line 7 “remember the side bitch is still a bitch and should treated as such”
Tighten up!
Article on Gawker about this. The guy admitted he’d had an 8 1/2 yr affair, but it’s ended & he’s been working on a divorce since 2008. Hmmm…so now she wants her ring? Yeah, right…*side-eye*
http://gawker.com/5454315/oracle-exec-admits-to-affair-with-woman-from-mystery-billboards
What if the wife found out and she did this? Now that would be hilarious. I know, most women that are cheated on like to hide away and tend to their wounds, but he was living with this woman publicly (if the Gawker article is true). With the divorce settlement she will receive, there will be plenty of money to travel the world a few times over tending to her broken heart.
I know, not likely.
IF I were unfavorably inclined to be a side piece, there WILL be travel (ain’t tryin to be spotted in town);and there WILL be money (although there ain’t enough to cover the cost of my freely surrendered dignity). But tell anybody about it? Wha? Tell the world I’m a freerange ho? Nope, wifey would never know about me, unless he told or somebody had big eyes and an equally big mouth.
“Dude ? ya?ll got time for all this messyness? really? over tang?”
-AMBBOOGIE
I got nothin’ after that.
Well…yes I do.
Charles is probably gonna take a flying knee to wallet…followed by a rear naked choke to his otherwise brilliant career.(MMA-speak) But should he have to? I mean his boss-Larry Ellison- has had a messy private life too.Of course he was the founder.But still…
Things happen in 3’s: Tiger Woods.Charles Phillips.Bara….(fvck it)
I told my mother about this this morning, and even she’s shaking her head at the side-hoe. Just to tack on to what I said before:
1. As side-hoe, you get the financial benefits of being with a man without the responsibilities of being a wife. Take the cash, the gifts, the trips, know your damn place and keep your mouth shut. You took up with a married man; stop acting entitled and wounded.
2. Even if he did leave his wife and marry her, does she think she’ll be his One and Only? She’d be an even dumber broad than I originally thought.
I do not condone extra-martial relationships (unless both husband and wife mutually agreed to an open marriage…which I doubt was the case here). However, if you’re going to cheat, cheat SMART!
This shit like this is why it isn’t beneficial to be ina commited relationship. That bytch knew he was married when she approached him. It’s funny to see these hoes here clapping but what their dumb asse aren’t getting is, the shyt you clap for might just b e the reason you find yourselves by yourself.
He was wrong to be in a marriage an cheating no doubt about it. She was wrong for approaching and sleeping with a known married man. The unknown is the wife’s side of this. They are indeed still together.
42% if black women will never be married. 72 % are single, 80% are overweight, 5% of that last 20 is just ugly as hell, 96 percent of black men are competing for 15% of black women.
HENCE SO MANY BLACK MEN GO TO OTHER RACES OF WOMEN.
So um clap it up.
@ ForRealBytchBeatIt
You forgot the amount of black women who think being “gangsta/real/ghetto fabulous” is a GOOD thing. Personally when I see gold fronts, bad weaves and 5 inch long acrylics and hear things like “heeey guuuurrrrrrl! s’just my bebedaddy” it makes it reeeeally hard to look past the cover and read the book.
@forrealbytch- really?
I don’t know where your stats come from, but you’ve locked onto one of my pet peeves – making women responsible for everything that’s wrong, including the behavior of other people’s kids. Your conclusion bears no relation to the situation, but stay with me, I’m coming back.
She was wrong; he was wrong; and he stood before God and several witnesses and made promises he apparently did not keep. She didn’t.
Apparently he was living two separate lives; a wife on the east coast from whom he was separated, and his girlfriend on the west coast, which is where he’s headquartered. According to people at Oracle, it was the girlfriend they saw, not the wife because he told them all he was divorced. It’s one thing to lie to your mistress about your situation, but he carried the lie throughout his personal and professional lives. It explains why they were able to take such lavish vacations out in the open, but it begs the question: if he reconciled with his wife in 2008, why is it he took his mistress to the INAUGURAL? Maybe he felt with the number of people there, no one would notice him. But some of the wife’s friends did.
The real question is what did the wife know and when did she find out, because this guy was living with Ya’V (or whatever her name is). They purchased property together, were living openly together.
Recap: he starts an affair (just because something is offered doesn’t mean you have to accept. over and over.); leaves his wife; begins a new life with his mistress (who doesn’t know he hasn’t really divorced, and neither do his friends/co-workers); keeps it going until SOMETHING makes him go back to his wife. The only real question is what was that something….it seems he had the intention of keeping all his options open with a woman on both coasts.
Back to your final statement: I don’t know where your stats come from, but you’ve locked onto one of my pet peeves – making women responsible for everything that’s wrong, including the behavior of other people’s kids. If this man is so bytchmade that his adolescent behavior and unwillingness to keep a promise has to be blamed on a woman, he has no business attempting to engage in any adult endeavor. Further, if I continue follow your flawed logic, I would be interested in anyone other than a black man because frankly, every time I’ve been hurt it was by a brotha. The interracial gorge has been crossed by both men and women, so your argument doesn’t hold water.
As one wise sister on this blog has said, PYP and sit down.
that’s what the f--k he get ASSHOLE………. DUMBASS CLOWN, he should’nt of lead her on with all them lies, put yourself in his wifes shoes !!! everybody cheats in todays world with this f--kIN INTERNET & TEXTING SHIT!!!!!!!!!!!!JUST STOP LYING SO MUCH d--kHEAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
WHAT KIND OF MESSAGE ARE THEY SENDING TO OUR YOUTH…2 OLD FOOLS ACTING LIKE THIS…BOTH OF THEM GOT WHAT THEY DESERVED!!!!!!
THE ONLY VICTIM HERE IS HIS WIFE AND KIDS (IF HE HAS ANY)
:: shrugs :: you can only keep telling a bytch there are only 3 lights when there are obviously 4.
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